In the healing journey, one of the most powerful techniques is tending to your inner child - the vulnerable part of us made equally out of the greatest joys known to humans, and the unmet needs from early childhood. In astrology, the inner child would be represented by the Sun capable of the highest creativity, and the Moon - as a sensitive and gentle creature, dimming with every disappointment.
Astrology, with its deep insights into our emotional and psychological patterns, is the best tool to unlock and heal the memories troubling the inner child. The Sun is shining unconditionally, and while its light can cause some problems, with the inner child, we should focus on the Moon first.
Moon: Key to Your Emotional Self
The Moon sign in your birth chart stands for your emotional core, earliest memories, and present-day needs. It represents the way you were emotionally cared for, and how that reflects on your current patterns - how you love and how you want to be loved. Look at your birth chart and see which sign your Moon is placed in. The chart has to be observed in its totality, but even just understanding the Moon is of great help.
Let's try to imagine life as a movie. The Sun would be the director, and the Moon the editor who is in charge of what experiences to keep as memories and which ones to forget. Basically, the Moon is building an image of the self based on the past, while the Sun is concerned with the present and the future. To understand and heal the inner child, we have to dive deep into our past and start from there.
Below you can read all about each Moon sign. Once you get in touch with your higher self the greatest joys become more evident, and the obstacles easier to cross.
Aries
Greatest Joys:
As an Aries Moon, your inner child is spirited and full of energy. You find immense joy in new experiences, adventures, and the thrill of taking initiative. The excitement of challenges and the freedom to act on impulse brings out your enthusiastic nature. The innate courage and desire to lead make you happiest when you're pioneering new paths and asserting your independence.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may arise when your need for immediate action is stifled or when you feel restricted. Situations where your enthusiasm was dampened or your autonomy was limited could have left lasting impressions on your inner child.
Taurus
Greatest Joys:
With the Moon in Taurus, your inner child finds joy in stability, comfort, and sensory pleasures. You delight in the simple things—a comfortable environment, the beauty of nature, and the right people around you. The appreciation for consistency and your nurturing nature make you happiest.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may stem from disruptions to your sense of security or comfort. Early experiences of instability, sudden changes, or a lack of physical comfort. If your need for consistency is not met, you may struggle with change or have a tendency to cling to the familiar, impacting your ability to adapt.
Gemini
Greatest Joys:
As a Gemini Moon, your inner child revels in curiosity, communication, and variety. You find joy in learning new things, engaging in stimulating conversations and exploring different ideas. The freedom to express yourself and connect with others brings you happiness.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may arise when your need for communication is hindered or when you feel misunderstood. If your early environment did not encourage expression or intellectual exploration, you might experience feelings of restlessness or anxiety.
Cancer
Greatest Joys:
With the Moon in its home sign of Cancer, your inner child finds joy in emotional connections, nurturing relationships, and a secure home environment. You are happiest when you feel loved and supported, and when you can care for others.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may come from feelings of emotional neglect or instability in your early life. If your need for security and nurturing is unmet, you might experience fears of abandonment or difficulty trusting others. Situations where your sensitivity was not acknowledged or where you felt unprotected could have led to emotional defensiveness or withdrawal.
Leo
Greatest Joys:
As a Leo Moon, your inner child delights in self-expression, creativity, and recognition. You find joy in showcasing your talents, receiving appreciation, and bringing joy to others. The spotlight energizes you, and you thrive when you're able to express your individuality and generosity. Your playful and warm-hearted nature shines brightest when you're celebrated and admired.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may arise from feelings of being overlooked or unappreciated. If, during your formative years, your need for attention and affirmation was unmet, you might struggle with self-esteem issues. Experiences where your creativity was stifled or your efforts went unnoticed could lead to a fear of rejection or a tendency to seek validation externally.
Virgo
Greatest Joys:
With the Moon in Virgo, your inner child finds joy in helping others, organizing, and refining skills. You take pleasure in being useful, solving problems, and paying attention to details. The satisfaction of improving situations and contributing in meaningful ways brings you happiness. Your practical and analytical nature thrives on order and purpose.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may stem from criticism or excessively high expectations during your early years. If your efforts are not recognized or if you feel you could never meet the standards set for you, it may lead to self-doubt or perfectionism. Experiences where your need for appreciation of your helpfulness was ignored could result in feelings of inadequacy.
Libra
Greatest Joys:
As a Libra Moon, your inner child delights in harmony, balance, and equal relationships. You find joy in creating peaceful environments, fostering connections, and appreciating beauty. Collaborating with others and finding mutual understanding brings you happiness. Your diplomatic and fair-minded nature thrives when there's cooperation and equality.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may arise from conflict, injustice, or lack of harmony in your early environment. If you experienced disharmony or felt your efforts to maintain peace were unsuccessful, it might lead to indecisiveness or people-pleasing tendencies. Situations, where your need for fairness was overlooked, could cause you to suppress your own needs to avoid confrontation.
Scorpio
Greatest Joys:
With the Moon in Scorpio, your inner child finds joy in deep emotional connections, transformation, and understanding hidden truths. You are happiest when you can explore the depths of your emotions and form intense bonds with others. The power of emotional honesty and the process of healing and renewal bring you profound satisfaction.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may come from experiences of betrayal, loss, or emotional turbulence in your early life. If your intense feelings were dismissed or if trust was broken, you might develop emotional guardedness or fear of vulnerability. Situations where your privacy was invaded or your secrets were exposed could lead to control issues.
Sagittarius
Greatest Joys:
As a Sagittarius Moon, your inner child revels in freedom, exploration, and the pursuit of knowledge. You find joy in adventure, travel, and expanding your horizons. The thrill of new experiences and the quest for truth bring you happiness. Your optimistic and philosophical nature thrives when you're able to pursue your passions without constraints.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may arise from feeling restricted or confined during your early years. If your need for freedom and exploration was limited, you might experience restlessness or a fear of commitment. Situations where your beliefs were dismissed or your enthusiasm was dampened could lead to cynicism or avoidance of responsibility.
Capricorn
Greatest Joys:
With the Moon in Capricorn, your inner child finds joy in achievement, responsibility, and mastering skills. You take pleasure in setting goals, working diligently, and seeing tangible results. The sense of accomplishment and the respect earned through your efforts bring you satisfaction. Your disciplined and determined nature thrives on structure and success.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may stem from excessive responsibilities or high expectations placed on you at a young age. If you felt burdened or your emotional needs were overlooked in favor of duty, it might lead to emotional restraint or feelings of inadequacy. Experiences, where your efforts were not acknowledged, could result in a fear of failure or difficulty expressing emotions.
Aquarius
Greatest Joys:
As an Aquarius Moon, your inner child delights in innovation, individuality, and connecting with like-minded people. You find joy in exploring new ideas, advocating for causes, and embracing your uniqueness. The freedom to be authentic and contribute to the greater good brings you happiness. Your progressive and intellectual nature thrives when you're part of a community that values your insights.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may arise from feelings of alienation or not fitting in during your early years. If your uniqueness was not accepted or if you felt emotionally disconnected from others, you might develop detachment or reluctance to express your true feelings. Situations, where your ideals were dismissed, could lead to rebelliousness or difficulty with intimacy.
Pisces
Greatest Joys:
With the Moon in Pisces, your inner child finds joy in imagination, compassion, and spiritual connection. You are happiest when you can express your creativity, help others, and connect with the deeper meanings of life. The beauty of dreams, art, and empathy brings you profound fulfillment. Your sensitive and intuitive nature thrives in environments that nurture your soul.
Likely Disappointments:
Disappointments may come from feelings of being overwhelmed or lacking boundaries in your early life. If your sensitivity was not understood or if you absorbed negative emotions from others, you might experience confusion or a tendency to escape reality. Situations where your kindness was taken advantage of could lead to self-sacrifice or difficulty asserting yourself.
How to Heal
To heal your inner child, begin by nurturing your Moon sign's needs. Meditate on the emotions and experiences your Moon sign points to and engage in activities that reconnect you with the emotional safety and care you may have missed in your early years.
Written by Diego T.